At all times, women and girls loved refined and sophisticated adornment of themselves. It was believed that the more precious lady jewelry made of precious metals, the more this woman is more noble, richer and higher in social status. In the southern countries of India or Africa, women's jewelry has always had a certain meaning and was an indispensable attribute of everyday value. A similar tradition has been preserved in modern times. Including great importance was attached to the rings. In addition to determining belonging to a certain circle among the rings, mystical signs and superstitions have developed. Popular beliefs determine why people should not give a ring.
The origins of omens
Many countries adhere to the notion that rings can still be given to both men and women without fear of mystical consequences. Gifts can be made both for birthdays and for the new year, and for any professional holidays. However, in Russian latitudes, the giving of the ring has a certain superstitious background.
Despite the fact that the gift of the ring from our ancestors is considered a positive tradition and a good omen. To her, some superstitions are attributed. For example, donation should be carried out exclusively by a person who wishes only good to the donee. The new owner of the ring may not always know how to give the gift to him. Therefore you should whisper to yourself
Thus, you can be sure that the negative energy of the ring and a bad omen will not reach the goal.
Our ancestors believed that the jewel can be presented only on certain holidays. For example, you can give an engagement jewelry. But if the gift is given at Christmas or on a birthday, then positive energy will not reach the goal. Whispering "Save and save", you should thank the person who made the ring a gift for such holidays. There is a possibility that the giver is not aware of this sign and the mystical abilities of the ring.
Superstitions associated with rings
The sign says that if a man or a guy makes such a gift to a young girl who is not his bride, then she should whisper “Save and save”. Thus, she will protect herself from the adverse consequences associated with the energy of the ring. It is important that the finger decoration be donated by the person who is good-natured to the person to whom the gift is given. The circular shape of the ring contains powerful flows of energy impulses. With an unfriendly attitude, they can bring failure to life.
Holidays for which you can make a gift with a jewel on your finger:
- Engagement cannot do without giving such an attribute as a ring. A young guy gives his girlfriend and bride a ring with a precious stone. Stone decoration has a symbolic meaning and a special sign, since the harder the mineral, the stronger the relationship and future marriage of a young couple. The stone shows that the man is firm in his intentions. In modern society, such an attribute is present only at the painting process in the registry office and at the wedding. However, in the days of our ancestors, the ring acted as evidence that a man or woman is bound by marriage.
- Birth in the family of a child. When a woman gives birth to her first child, her husband must give her a substantial gift. In this case, various jewelry made of precious metals will always be relevant. Including rings.
- Superstitious and believing people will gladly accept a simple silver ring as a gift, presented with love and good intentions. In this case, it is worth saying the phrase "Lord, save and save." It is best that part of the phrase “save and save” be engraved on the inside of the ring.
Refusal to accept jewelry
If the gift falls on a birthday or new year, it is best to refuse to accept such a gift. Of course, not everyone can understand the meaning of superstition, but if you get a ring for your birthday or new year, you can cry tears. Therefore, failure will be the best option. A young girl is not recommended to accept gold and bulky jewelry on her finger as a gift from a guy. And best of all, if the guy will present her earrings or bracelets than rings. Otherwise, a young couple may incur a deterioration in relations and an early quarrel.
The young wife is also not recommended to give her husband a birthday. Despite the fact that men are always favorably influenced by rings made of precious metals, men's energy is greatly weakened on their birthday or new year. On a birthday or new year, a person’s aura is excessively weak and susceptible to negative surroundings. Having received the ring, a man undergoes a powerful energy and circular surge, which can attract bad waves. In this case, you can expect and failures in work and love. Therefore, for a man who receives a ring as a gift for his birthday or new year, it is better to refuse it for a while and accept it on another day.
Gold is always appropriate
A special place among gifts is occupied by men's accessories, since it is more difficult to make the right choice here than in the case of women's jewelry. Successful and winning gifts are always gold jewelry for men, in particular, signet rings. Such a gift will cost in the amount of 5 thousand rubles. and to infinity, but it will certainly impress and deserve worthy of attention.
Men's prints and rings are always in fashion, so you can be sure about the relevance of your gift. Gold men's signet will be an ideal gift for a loved one, dad or brother, as well as for a business partner.
Signet rings decorated with precious or semiprecious stones look especially beautiful and elegant. Of semiprecious ones, for example, it is successfully combined with gold cubic zirconia - a traditionally male stone. Black onyx (agate) in combination with white gold will pleasantly surprise even true connoisseurs of jewelry. In the luxury category, you can pick up rings with diamonds. Here, one large stone can be involved, as well as several small ones.
Conciseness and restraint - these are the main guidelines when choosing a gift for a man. However, it is worth taking into account the type of activity of the endowed. In the business environment, minimalism is adopted, pretentiousness is considered rather bad form. If the person presented is a representative of creative bohemia, then designer refinement, an exclusive ring, will do.
Need to know
Please note that your gift should not be more expensive than gifts that a man gives you. Otherwise, according to psychologists, this at a subconscious level leads to some kind of competition between partners. Also, you can not go with a man to the store, where he will choose a gift with you. This situation is awkward for a man.
According to etiquette, you should not give a man signets with stones of more than 1 carat, as such a gift would be considered binding. The value of the product will emphasize the certificate of authenticity of the stone. However, it should be applied only to a product with a diamond, diamond or sapphire, otherwise you can pass for ignoramus.
A jewelry certificate can also be a gift for a man. But it’s more suitable as a gift for a business partner, but not for romantic relationships.
The gold signet presented by you will involuntarily make a man feel more confident. Putting it on, the man will declare to everyone around his status.
Do not purchase jewelry in online stores, give preference to a specialized salon.
Bad energy and its prevention
There is a superstition associated with the ring that one cannot measure other people's jewelry. Actually it is possible, but the field of this should be a cleansing ritual. The ring, which was tried on, should be brought up for a couple of seconds to the burning candle, then it will be possible to return it to its rightful owner. Thus, you can save decoration from the interweaving of the human aura.
As a cleansing rite, you can put the jewel overnight in holy water. In some cases, it is enough to blow into the circle of jewelry, thereby updating the magical energy of the item.
If it is not possible to perform all the necessary rituals of purification, then it will be enough to transfer the tried on jewel to the rightful mistress and whisper
Gift ring - traditional meaning
In earlier times, engagement (betrothal) followed a successful matchmaking and had a very serious meaning. The marriage was considered already resolved, almost completed. After the rite of betrothal, immediate preparations for the wedding celebration began. For many nations, the bride from the moment of engagement to the very wedding did not leave the house, completing the preparation of the dowry.
The feelings expressed by a man presenting a ring as a gift can be very different.
The ring, which is presented to the girl by the groom on the day of the engagement, was called engagement and stayed with her forever. Later, in the church, on top of the engagement, a second was put on, wedding ring. That is why it is generally accepted that a man, giving a woman a ring, offers her a marriage.
Ring as a gift - a sign
Time is changing attitudes and traditions. Modern men, presenting a ring as a gift to their companion, do not always give this gesture the usual meaning. Often this is simply a desire to make something pleasant, and sometimes a desire to show off, to show the level of one’s financial capabilities. In the first case, a guy can present his girlfriend with a silver ring or jewelry. A great option to do this is tiffany rings, everyone can afford to buy a tiffany ring, but it looks stylish and attractive. In the second case, the man will choose the most expensive jewelry. Such a status gift is a diamond ring, platinum or gold, made by designers in a single copy.
A ring can express a man’s desire to please a companion or demonstrate his abilities.
Women who are set up for marriage, as before, tend to perceive any ring as a gift precisely as an offer of marriage. And if the gift does not follow the specific steps leading to the wedding, the woman begins to get nervous, hint at registration or even openly insist on formalizing the relationship.
Naturally, this divergence of intentions leads to conflicts and the destruction of relations. Exactly therefore, it was popularly believed that a ring as a gift is a bad omenthat such a gift leads to rupture and separation.
In fact, of course it's not about the subject, but about ourselves. If a woman takes a sober view of life and is ready to accept her beloved man with all his fears and thoughts, if she is willing to patiently wait for him to “mature for marriage”, she will behave calmly and nothing bad will happen. When a man determines his feelings and desires, he will definitely say so directly. And then there will be no doubt left - you will become husband and wife.
How to choose the “same” ring?
Before you give a ring to a woman or girl, you need to determine:
- age of the future owner. Older women are better off choosing jewelry with an original design and precious stone. It is customary for young girls to give delicate and miniature jewelry that will only emphasize the youth and tenderness of the future owner,
- product quality. To make a proper impression, saving is not worth it. It’s better to choose a precious metal ring with a precious stone,
- occasion for a gift. If a ring is given on the occasion of an engagement, then it is customary to choose a gold jewelry with a diamond of original design or with an engraving.
How to give an original ring: ideas
Even from the knights, many ideas and options came to us, how it is interesting and original to make the moment of ring presentation truly unforgettable.
White and pink gold ring, SL,
Therefore, there are ways of giving, how unusual it is to give a ring to a girl, but the choice of one of them depends only on what semantic load the gift carries:
- in honor of the birthday
- like a marriage proposal
- for New Year or Christmas,
- on March 8th
- as a confession of feelings
- as atonement, etc.
And for each event, you can prepare a lot of ways to give a ring. So, if you don’t have your own ideas, you can take advantage of strangers, time-tested and generations that guarantee 100% success in this difficult event.
How to give a wedding ring?
The moment of recognition in ardent feelings, an oath of eternal love and an offer of a hand and heart should be unforgettable and left only the most warm memories, evoked tenderness and pleasant memories. But how to give an engagement ring to your beloved girl so that she makes the “right” impression on her and evokes only predicted feelings and emotions? There is only one answer: do everything in an original and beautiful way so that your “half” does not have a desire to refuse you. The traditional methods of the original gift of a wedding ring include:
- the use of a living flower or bouquet,
- putting the ring in dessert
- in a glass of wine.
Everyone knows that red roses are a symbol of love and passion, so they will help in deciding how to give a girl an engagement ring in an original way. To do this, select a flower with a bud that has blossomed only half, and place a ring in it, passing through it several petals for reliable fixation. Or, you can thread several stems of flowers through the ring. Before handing the bouquet, cover the gift with your palm, and when your loved one takes the flowers, she will immediately find a surprise addressed to her.
Dipping the ring into dessert or a glass of wine is another way to present it in an original way. To do this, pre-book a table in the restaurant and arrange with the waiter to put the decoration on dessert or imperceptibly put it in a glass of wine. Believe me, your chosen one will appreciate such a gift, dish and offer.
How to give a non-engagement ring?
If in your immediate plans for the future there is still no marriage, but there is a desire to make a girl nice and give her a ring, then there is simply no better reason than New Year or the holiday of March 8th.
So, for example, you can donate an engagement ring to your beloved girl in the original way using the Kinder Surprise chocolate egg: it is sweet, pleasant and unexpected. To do this, carefully remove the wrapper, separate the halves of the dessert and place the selected ring in a plastic box. Then fold the chocolate halves in reverse order and wrap in brown paper.
Or put the decoration in an envelope, writing warm words, and drop it in the mailbox. But do not forget to immediately call the girl and ask her to check the mail.
On the eve of the New Year, try to beat a gift in a festive theme:
- place the ring inside the Christmas tree toy,
- present a festive composition or a Christmas wreath of pine branches, dry cones and Christmas tinsel, attaching your gift to them,
- tie the ring to the paw of the toy bear. It will look cute, and the girl will certainly appreciate your idea.
To preserve an unforgettable moment in your memory, get ready and take a picture of the moment when the girl sees a gift.
How to give a birthday ring?
Every girl or woman on her birthday expects something interesting and special from her lover. And the ring will be just in time! Therefore, if there is no desire to "come up with a bicycle", then take a box of her favorite sweets, put a ring in it and tie everything up with a beautiful ribbon. The main thing is to make sure that the birthday girl unpacks the sweets on the day of the holiday, and not put it as a gift.
But to make a real surprise, come to the girl on her birthday with a bunch of balloons, in each place in advance leaflets with wishes, compliments and gentle confessions, and only in one - a package with a ring. Just make sure that the hero of the occasion opens the ball with a surprise at the end.
Another way to give a ring for a birthday is to wrap a gift in a matryoshka or several boxes of different sizes. Unpacking each “layer” one by one, the girl will inflame excitement, increase curiosity and anticipation of surprise. But this method is only suitable for creative girls with a sense of humor, who can appreciate the inventiveness and imagination of their chosen one. Yes, and give it better at home.
How to present a ring romantically?
An ornament hidden in a collection of love poems is an unusual and original way of giving a girl a romantic ring. Nobody will praise you for spoiling books, but for the sake of love you can’t do anything!
Gold ring with swarovski cubic zirconias, SL, (price by reference)
To do this, take a book with your beloved's favorite poems, cut a hole the size of a ring in the middle of it. В полученное углубление поместите подарок, и устройте вечер поэзии под аккомпанемент легкой и романтической музыки. Прочитав несколько произведений, передайте «эстафету» своей избраннице как раз в том месте, где вами был подготовлен сюрприз. Если все будет идти по плану, то эффект вас ждет самый ошеломляющий и чувственный!
Как необычно подарить кольцо?
Walking along the beach and relaxing by the gentle waves is a very interesting way, how to give an unusual ring, can be a walk to the beach. Of course, it is suitable only for those couples who live close to the pond or together went on vacation to the sea. Buy a bivalve shell in advance at the souvenir shop, from which swimmers get pearls, carefully place the ring in it and, upon reaching the beach, discreetly throw a “surprise” in the sand next to the place where the girl is located. As if by chance, turn your and her attention to the find. Believe me: there will be no limit to joy! But make sure that the girl found the ring, and did not hide it with her shell in her purse “as a keepsake”.
There are a lot of options on how to give a ring to a girl or a beloved woman in an original way. And they are all good in their own way: the choice of the appropriate way to confess your feelings and give a ring depends only on the nature of your chosen one, her hobbies and passions. It is also important to listen to your heart and understand your own feelings and feelings. Only in this way will you make the moment of recognition unforgettable.
What does a gift ring mean?
So, a modern man can give a ring without any far-reaching intentions. And a woman should be ready for this. Accepting the gift, one should carefully evaluate the circumstances, gestures and words of the man at this moment.
Presented for the holiday, a ring as a gift can express a man’s unconscious readiness for marriage.
The ring is presented unexpectedly, no apparent reason or significant comment? So, the man does not attach any serious significance to him. This is his desire to please you, to express your sympathy and good affection. Express your gratitude, try to please him in return, but do not demand anything and do not rush things.
A gift is associated with an event in your life (date of meeting, birthday) or a common holiday (March 8, Valentine's Day, New Year), but, again, not supported by openly made proposal? You can assume that your chosen one subconsciously is ready for marriage, but has not yet made a final decision, is still inclined to reflect and weigh all the pros and cons. In no case do not press on him, do not rush. No man will tolerate this. Feeling the pressure, he would rather run away than make the positive decision you want.
If, giving a ring, he speaks of his love and desire to be always together - the wedding is already close!
Presenting the ring as a gift, he says that he wants to be with you forever, share joys and sorrows, give birth and raise children? Here one can no longer guess what significance he attaches to his gift. Be sure: the wedding date will be set soon and pleasant preparations for its preparation will begin. And advice to you, yes love!